Chat with a lonely wife
Little did I know, I was about to stumble on a real goldmine. After countless of hours on my computer, I finally found a safe haven for folks like myself, a true married dating community. I found this site to be very effective at controlling their membership.
The women I started chatting with were genuine; we could relate to each other’s experience of trying to re-discover that lost spark outside the confines of our respective marriages.
Besides, I was desperate to smile, feel good again and fulfill my urges.
Wouldn’t you know it, there are dating sites filled with beautiful women who are willing to accept a man carrying a ball and chain. At least, I used to be before my personality took a sabbatical during the stagnant stages of my marriage. The first hundred or so sites (I am not kidding) that I tried were less than inspiring.
You see, growing up as a child, I was always taught that marriage was bliss.
That was true for sometime, but only at the beginning. We couldn’t agree on vacation destinations, home improvements or the color of our towels. there isn’t much to say as it didn’t seem to exist anymore.
I felt the site’s vetting system was a bit flawed – too many women who didn’t have the most important aspect in common with me: married but looking.
As my wife and I started to grow apart after 19 years of marriage, the conflict between the desire to be happy, and the desire to honor the marriage started to collide. As we drifted apart, we began turning to external forces in order to maintain our sanity and marriage. I used to read about lonely housewives, now I was becoming one, a lonely house husband.
The thought of being married but alone is not something I was prepared to handle. You see, I don’t remember the exact point in time, perhaps 5 years into our marriage, but I started catching myself fantasizing about other women – sexually and otherwise.
Yet, I had needs that weren’t filled by my marriage and that is when I decided to look outside the marriage to fulfill these needs.
I created this blog in hopes that you won’t have to go through the same trial and tribulations I have in finding the perfect dating site for married people.